Summary of the session:
Zoya Simakhodskaya facilitates a live clinical demonstration with a married couple who identify as white, cisgender, heterosexual, middle-class, able-bodied, and Catholic. The couple presents
for consultation at a relational choice point, seeking clarity about the future of their relationship. The session centers on one partner’s experience of emotional isolation alongside a profound
fear of vulnerability. Zoya skillfully validates this partner’s protective withdrawal while gently guiding him toward awareness of the underlying attachment longing and the internal conflict that
maintains his distancing. As this process unfolds, his partner is supported in accessing and expressing her own sadness and unmet attachment needs, revealing a reciprocal cycle of
longing and disconnection. NYCEFT Certified Couple Therapists and Supervisor Candidates (app in progress), Catherine Nobile and Kathy Rogers comment on the session process and EFT interventions, engaging participants in a discussion to integrate the learning.
WHEN: Monday January 26, 2026
TIME: 10:00am-12:00pm EST
WHERE: Online via Zoom (Zoom links will be sent to registrants prior to the event)
COST: 20.00 dollars.
Free for December 2025 externship participants (need a code)
Discussant: Kathleen Rogers, DSW, LCSW

Kathy is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified EFCT therapist who works with couples, individuals and families specializing in trauma, addiction and sexual health.
Discussant: Catherine Nobile, Psy.D.

Cat is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Certified EFCT therapist who specializes in couples, individuals and families with emotional overcontrol specifically related to trauma and obsessive-compulsive processes.
Cancellation Policy: Online registrations are not refundable.
Questions: Please reach out to NYCEFT at infonyceft@gmail.com with any questions or concerns.
